Sunday, May 4, 2008

My Mom

Kathy's Mom  --  Frances

                           02/26/32  --  05/03/08

 

                                Gone From My Sight

                                 by Henry Van Dyke

I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side,
spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts
for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck
of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

Then, someone at my side says, "There, she is gone"

Gone where?

Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast,
hull and spar as she was when she left my side.
And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.

Her diminished size is in me -- not in her.
And, just at the moment when someone says, "There, she is gone,"
there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices
ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!"

And that is dying...

*************************

A Mother Finds Rest

— Edgar A Guest

And now she dwells where

Neither doubt nor fear

May find her breast;

No crying child may now

Disturb her here

Or break her rest.

Ended the ache of living.

Here she lies In wondrous peace.

God left a smile about her

Lovely eyes

With her release.

How oft we fretted her

Or caused her pain,

We cannot say.

Long hours she watched

Beside the window pane

With us away.

Her sleep we broke with

Whimpering and sighs

When we were ill.

Nor thought it much to

Rouse her with our cries,

As children will.

But now we suffer so,

And vainly call

For her to come.

Her feet will never tread

Again the hall,

Her lips are dumb.

Love had no more sweet

Service to provide,

But this we know,

She’ll watch us upon the

Other side,

Who tried her so. How oft we fretted her

Or caused her pain,

We cannot say.

Long hours she watched

Beside the window pane

With us away.

Her sleep we broke with

Whimpering and sighs

When we were ill.

Nor thought it much to

Rouse her with our cries,

As children will.

But now we suffer so,

And vainly call

For her to come.

Her feet will never tread

Again the hall,

Her lips are dumb.

Love had no more sweet

Service to provide,

But this we know,

She’ll watch us upon the

Other side,

Who tried her so.

*************************

 

On the Wings White Dove
   by ????

On the wings of a snow-white dove
He sends His pure sweet love
A sign from above (sign from above)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)

When troubles surround us, when evils comeThe body grows weak (body grows weak)
The spirit grows numb (spirit grows numb)
When these things beset us, He doesn't forget us
He sends down His love (sends down His love)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)

On the wings of a snow-white dove
He sends His pure sweet love
A sign from above (sign from above)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)

When Noah had drifted on the flood many days
He searched for land (he searched for land)
In various ways (various ways)
Troubles, he had some but wasn't forgotten
He sent him His love (sent him His love)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)

On the wings of a snow-white dove
He sends His pure sweet love
A sign from above (sign from above)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)

On the wings of a snow-white dove
He sends His pure sweet love
A sign from above (sign from above)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)

On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)
On the wings of a dove (wings of a dove)

 

 

55 comments:

Anonymous said...

Kathy i am so sorry for your loss. (((((hugs))))) let us know how you are doing when you feel you can. ((((HUGS))))

Anonymous said...

so sorry for your loss.  you are in my prayers

Anonymous said...

I sympathise deeply, Kathy. I lost my mom on May 1st. Wishing you and yours every strength at this very sad time.

Guido

Anonymous said...

A very lovely tribute to your Mother. May God be with you and all her family and give you strength and comfort. Helen

Anonymous said...

Guido directed me over here. I'm so sorry to hear your mum has passed on. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. Jeannette xx  http://journals.aol.co.uk/jlocorriere05/Welcometomytravels/  

Anonymous said...

Kathy,

Guido was so kind to re-direct over to your journal.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I pray that you feel the love and support from fellow J-Landers, your family and friends, and the Lord above as you go through the difficult times ahead.
Let us know how you are doing when you can.

Hugs,
Gina

Anonymous said...

I'm keeping you and your family in my prayers on the smoke during this sad time of loss. Your mother left lasting memories across your heart so you would always know she is never gone, she still remains with you in spirit. Stay safe and loved dear friend in the knowledge she was loved as much as you were loved in turn. (Hugs) Indigo

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you In my thoughts and prayers. The words were simply beautiful. Love Pam xx

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

Sharon

Anonymous said...

Please accept my sympathy on the loss of your dear Mom, praying for you & yours during this difficult time.
God bless,
Sugar

Anonymous said...

No one in this world can take the place of the one who
brought us into this world.
For our heatbeat is their heartbeat.
As long as your heart beats, she will remain remain
alive within you.
May you find peace and comfort in Gods loving grace
and look to the sky where she watches over you .
connie

Anonymous said...

Special thoughts and prayers for you Kathy.  Love you and thinking about you.  Shelly

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear Mum.  My thoughts and prayers are with you my friend.

http://journals.aol.co.uk/jeanno43/JeannettesJottings/

Anonymous said...

Oh Cathy, Hon, were I there to hug you I would.  Please accept my sympathy for the loss of your mother.  Prayers your way.  May she rest in peace.

Anonymous said...

Awww Kathy I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  Sending hugs and strength.
d

Anonymous said...

Sweetie I am here for you if you need a shoulder, a hand, a hug or even someone to share a cup of tea with.  I send you love, support, strength and peace.

Hugs to you, my dear friend

Deb

Anonymous said...

My deepest sympathies to you & your family.
Lisa

Anonymous said...

My thoughts are with you sweetheart, I am fast approaching the anniversary of my Mum's passing and it hurts as much now as it did 7yrs ago. You are in my thoughts at this sad time.

Anonymous said...

Kathy, I'm so very sorry for your loss.  May your beautiful sweet mother rest in peace.  My heart is with you for comfort.

Joann

Anonymous said...

My thoughts are with you and your family...so sorry for your loss.

Nancy

Anonymous said...

My Dear Kathy...I send my love and thoughts to you and my prayers that you will find peace in the knowledge that your beloved Mom is at peace and away from our troubled world to somewhere most wonderful.  God will be with you and your Father at this time even though he may feel far away. Lean on your friends.  Love Sybil xx

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.  My Mother's name was Frances also.
~D

Anonymous said...

I heard about your loss and came to offer my sympathy.  My dear mom passed away Oct 8, 1987 and there's hardly a day goes by that I don't think of  & miss her.  Blessings to you and your family as you go thru this sad time.   Linda in Washington state  

Anonymous said...

What beautiful poetry... I lost my Dad some years ago along with my brother, and my Mom is now frail and week... I know your loss and my heart goes out to you... My prayers are with you, now and always.   ~Journey

Anonymous said...

God bless you dear and be very near to you at this time!  What a lovely memorial.  I've always like Charlie Pride's version of the Snow White Dove.  -  Barbara

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you.

God Bless.
Tia

Anonymous said...

Sorry for your loss. May God sustain you at this time.

You have written a beautiful memorial to your mother.

Jody

Anonymous said...

so sorry about your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. (((((hugs)))))))
Cindy

Anonymous said...

Kathy ~

My condolances to you and the rest of your family, Kathy. Your memorial to your Mom is lovely. I really love "Gone From My Sight", by Henry Van Dyke. It helps me with my own losses. You have great courage and strength. May God continue to bring you comfort as you mourn the loss of your Mother. I hope you will always remember her in a positive light. You are in my thoughts and prayers, dear lady.

Suzy Colorado
Adventures @ Starbelle

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry, dear.  This is hard, but you left a very nice tribute.  Be safe and be strong.

(((hug))))
Russ

Anonymous said...

Special thoughts to you and yours....
Linda...

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother!!
Missie

Anonymous said...

Popped over from Guido's journal.

I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, my thoughts and prayers are with you

Jayne

Anonymous said...

My sympathy,Kathy, to you and your family.
You're in my prayers.
Kathi

Anonymous said...

Shalom;
Just a few minutes ago, the title of your jounral caught my eye. As a former Hospics LPN, "Gone from my Sight" is a familiar friend. I am so sorry for your lost. Being close to my own mum, my heart hurts for you. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Laini

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for you and your family. God be with you all through this....

Angel

Anonymous said...

Kathy,
I'm so very sorry honey.  May God send his angels to wrap loving arms around you and give you peace during this hard time.
Love,
Connie

Anonymous said...

Kathy, I am so sorry for your lost--but happy you rose to the moment and made these last months so memorable.  After your time of grief, these are the beautiful things you will cherish.  You are in my prayers.  ((hugs)), LaVern

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry,.
hugs, Cassie

Anonymous said...

I am so very, very sorry for you loss Kathy.  This was so sudden for you and your family, and I cannot imagine the grief you must feel right now.  I hope that you are able to find the peace and strength needed to get through the next few days.  Please take care!
Lori

Anonymous said...

I came here from Kathy's place (Life on Flamingo Row...)  My heart goes out to you.  My mom died just this past December, and I know how hard it is.  Peace to you, to her, to your family.  Beautiful poems here.  Good to think of her in that place...  Lisa  :-]  

Anonymous said...

Oh Honey--I'm so sorry. If you can think of anything at all, you call me. You know it doesn't matter what time.

Much Love,

Andi

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry.  Yes, it is a comfort to know she went to go be with the Lord.

Krissy
http://journals.aol.com/fisherkristina/SometimesIThink

Anonymous said...

My sincerest sympathies to you and your family at this time of great sorrow for you.  Beautiful tribute to your mom.  May she rest in eternal peace.  'On Ya' - ma

Anonymous said...

my deepest condolences to you Kathy,words cannot express how you must be feeling but I am facing the loss of my father in the near future,should his results not fair him well,Judging by your strength and personality,I imagine your mum was a wonderful and sadly missed lady,hugs zoe xxxxxxx
http://journals.aol.co.uk/zoepaul6968/domestic-chaos/

Anonymous said...

You're in my prayers friends. Tammy

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))

Jenny

http://journals.aol.co.uk/Jmoqueen/MyLife

Anonymous said...

Dear Kathy, I'm extremely sorry about the loss of your Mom ~ (((((Hugz)))))) Teresa

Anonymous said...

Dear Kathy I am so sorry to ready about your Mom's passing.  
Please accept my condolences and thank you for helping me to see how special she was by your choice of poems.
She was indeed a special lady if the words are anything to go by.
You are in my prayers.
May she rest in peace.

Hugs
Jeanie  xxx

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear that your mom passed, and these are beautiful sentiments you have posted here.  I came from Guido's journal and Call for Support.  He was thinking of you even as he prepares to go to his Mom's funeral services, and I thought that was so caring.  Gerry  http://journals.aol.com/gehi6/daughters-of-the-shadow-men/  

Anonymous said...

I have you in my prayers, Kathy.  You are right, she sets upon another shore, greeting family, old friends and new.  Blessings and love, Penny  http://journals.aol.com/firestormkids04/FromHeretoThere
http://journals.aol.com/firestormkids04/TimeforaLittlePoetry

Anonymous said...

Kathy, I am so sorry about the loss of your mom, thank you for your kind words in my journal, Hugs Lisa

Anonymous said...

Kathy, I am so sorry for the loss of your mom.
I lost my mom 10 years ago.  HUGS!

She will always be with you - protecting you and loving you.

I will keep you and your father and your family in my prayers.

Love,
Michelle

Anonymous said...

Hon, I have been off line for quite awhile so just now discovered you've lost your MOther. Having lost my own, words fail me right now. Just know you are in my prayers, as always.
Love you much,
Barb- http://journals.aol.com/barbpinion/HEYLETSTALK

Anonymous said...

Please accept my most sincere condolences on the loss of your Mom. I know there's little that can be said, but please know that we are all sharing in your grief and that we'll always be here for you.

Please take care of yourself.

Jimmy