Mom is doing ok. For now anyway. On the 13th it will be a month since we got the news of her cancer. She was given just a few months to live. So I don't really know what to expect or when to expect it. I am making an appointment for me to see one of Hospice's grief counselors. It seems so weird to be doing that.
Today mom and I talked about what she wanted to be buried in. I would have never thought I would have that conversation with either of my parents. It was so weird. We were both so calm and talking like we were picking out an outfit for some appointment or outing we were going to have. So very strange.
My brother keeps telling mom he will be down for a visit. (he lives 45 minutes to 1 hour away) He came to visit the day after we got the news of mom's cancer. Mom was in the hospital and I find out today that she doesn't remember him being there. Anyways.....big bro has yet to come see mom since she has been home. I know this bothers her but I don't know what to to tell her.
My oldest niece did come to visit mom the other day (she lives about 1 hour away) She brought her newest boyfriend -- some guy from Mexico that speaks no English. She calls mom all the time.
It is still raining here. Will it ever stop? My grass needs cutting but why bother with all this rain?
Kathy
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Hi, I'm Michelle.
I can't imagine what you are going through - this must be so sureal to you all.
I am keeping your mom and you and your family in my prayers daily.
hugs and love,
Michelle
((((((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOOU)))))))))))))))Myy thoughts ans prayers are with you and God is always there,more than anyone.
I cannot imagine how you must feel, Kathy, but I hope that your mom will remain comfortable. You remain in our thoughts at this time.
Hospice folk are awesome people...they can be a great resource for people who are facing what you are. Don't be afraid to need them , but also don't be afraid to decline some of what they offer. This is a deeply personal thing and my thoughts are with you, hon.
xx
Russ
Dear Kathy: Know the news was a shock to receive, but do think you will have such memorable memories, that in the end you will be most appreciative of the time given you to share so thoroughly. In my immediate family I have experienced the gambit of death: sudden death; long illness, but death still coming unexpectedly; and the type you are now experiencing. If I had a choice of my own death, I can assure you I would choose the last. Having the time to say good-bye, and working things out before death calls is truly a blessing that only a few are given. Glad you and mother are using the opportunity to make those plans that will be such a help to you when the time comes. Hugs to you. LaVern
Keeping your mom and family in prayers.
Cindy
My Mom and I had that burial outfit conversation too......like it was nothing. No tears, to crying......just bury me in blue she said.
Unfortunately, I buried her in a red blazer. She still looked gorgeous.
Angel
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